Saturday, September 20, 2014

Make Your Single Parent Life Easier

By Neth Mantilla


No one would argue that it's easy being a single parent. Discovering time to work with you child can be hard even as you try to do your best. The costs associated with raising children are handled with one income including health care, childcare and other costs and can pose a financial problem for the single parent. Unemployment makes the situation even more dire. The following are some ideas and suggestions that can help ease the challenges of single parenting.

Don't be afraid to seek professional help, either for yourself or your child. There is often a painful situation, such as a death or divorce, associated with being a single parent, and this can be hard for everyone involved. Too often, the single parent has enough problems, and doesn't always think about the situation through the eyes of the child.

One thing for sure when you are raising children there will be emergency situations, so you should prepare yourself. As important as this is, it is even more so for a single parent. Your children will most likely have an accident of some kind, and need emergency services, so to be ready have your list of contacts written down. There are times when you may need help with different situations, such as being late with a work problem, or car troubles, it doesn't need to be anything as bad as life or death. There are also babysitting services that will send someone over on short notice, and it's good to know about any such service in your area in case you need them.

Having children means having emergencies, so you need to be prepared for them beforehand, so you will know what to do. When you have no one to help you, like a single parent, it is even more important. You should make a list of anyone, such as family members or close friends, who could help you out in case of an emergency. Even if nothing major happens, you may need help with a vehicle, or need to stay late at work, where you need a couple of hours of help. It would be a good idea to know about the services in your area, because you never know when you might need a quick babysitter.

The responsibilities can feel overwhelming and you may think there is no one there to help you when you are bringing up a child by yourself. You may want to find a support group for single parents in your area. Many find it beneficial to engage with other parents in the same predicament. Aside from making new friends, you may find people who can help you with practical issues as well, such as watching each other's children on occasion. Though you can find single parent groups online it is wonderful to add these people to your support network by meeting them in person.

Today, there are options that never existed before for single parents. There are many support groups online, along with forums where single parents can meet other single parents. There are way more activities for children these days, along with businesses becoming child-friendly, children are welcome more places. Some of the difficulties with being a single parent, have been lessened by the fact that being a single parent is more accepted these days.




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