Wednesday, September 24, 2014

There Are Many Ways To Deal With Evergreen Parenting Issues

By Darwin Chu


Parents no longer have the same issues that their parents had, but new and improved ones because of modern technology. It is anybody's guess what this day and age may do to our kids because of these advances. New lessons and ways of adapting must be learned by parents today to conform with changes. Dealing with the standard problems associated with parenting still exist and probably always will. As you may know, we are simply dealing with human nature and providing our kids with guidance along the way. It is our job as parents to be positive influences as our kids grow up and deal with change.

If you currently have children you'll know all too well what it feels like trying to mediate an argument. And sometimes things can go a bit too far, with the situation ending up like a boxing match. Yes, we're talking about the natural occurrence of sibling competition. First, this is very natural and certainly to be expected. Remember that this can in fact be a good learning experience for both of your children. You can't just stop the normal processes involved with of growing up. But, you can try to analyze the whole picture by taking a step back. You will often see clear patterns involving personalities, and then that can help you handle the situations more effectively.

There really isn't anything else more frustrating that knowing your kid is telling lies. There are different degrees of this type of behavior, and you must try and assess it to determine how bad it is. Also, it may be a smart move to try and figure out where this learned behavior originated. Your child will encounter people who have a bad influence on them at school. Reminding your child about the importance of being honest, particularly when you know for certain that your child is telling you a lie, is very crucial. This can be a frustrating experience for any parent, we know. You may even consult with professional counselors if you feel the situation warrants doing so.

One of the most unfortunate and potentially difficult situations is helping a child cope with the death of someone close to them. You need to take into account the comprehension level of the child before explaining to them what has occurred. If all else fails, contact a professional counselor that can help your child understand.

Do your best to explain this to your children, but do not confound them in your attempt to help them understand. But also realize that children are much more aware now, and the internet as well as typical TV programming and movies have contributed to this. To help nurture the good behaviors you want in children, all parents should be kind, compassionate, and supportive. Then, avoid being critical when they make mistakes, and just provide gentle feedback and guidance.




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