There is no such thing as a perfect parent. It is a difficult job, and I think most of us would agree that it is much more difficult than we thought it would be ! That is why sometimes I want some suggestions to improve what we already do well and took some additional capacity to be better . Like anything else , a good education requires practice and these skills can be learned over time . Here are some characteristics of a good parent
1 A good parent is a good listener. And there is a big difference between active listening and passive listening . Your kids will make a difference. By actively listen , not just hear what they say , but participate in a conversation about it.2 Be a good example for your child. Remember that you imitate , explore the world and, indeed , the adult world through their own behavior . Be the adult you want your child to become.
3 tell your son . " I love you " It takes about a second to say these words , but the effects are monumental . Children who feel loved are more confident , happy, and often healthier. Are not these the best gifts you can give to your children? Take a few minutes to make your child feel special will make you feel special too .
4 Always remain calm. Teach you something if you yell at your child. Never react impulsively in front of your child. Contain spills. A feeling of anger is normal. Cool in an other room if necessary . Lower your voice, but speak with a firm tone when needed . No need to shout .
5 A good father creates a structured environment. Your children need this routine if they think they do or not. They may complain of brushing teeth or making the bed or doing homework , but these routines and expectations provide order in their lives.
6 . A good father provides a sense of security and protection. We can not keep them forever, but we can make them feel safe. There is nothing more comforting than your child a safe and loving home.
7 . A good father is proud of his children and often said. You do not need your child to score a touchdown or get an A on his spelling test to be proud of him. You can not be proud of him for being a good guy. Say on a regular basis .
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