Saturday, May 24, 2014

Understanding The Controversial Babywise Method

By Marci Glover


People choose to raise their babies and children the way they prefer. Some can be quite strict, and others not so much. Who is really to say what's right and what's wrong, as kids really do turn out a particular way resulting from their DNA, the way they're raised, and a lot of other factors. Below, find information on understanding the controversial babywise method that could be right for some, but not for others.

Feeding is very big issue with newborns. Some parents believe that it's important to feed whenever the baby demands it, where others believe that it should be more rigorous, feeding only on a schedule. With babywise, depending on the infant's age, it's recommended to feed on the schedule. The idea is to establish a routine that starts with feeding, and then play, followed by sleep, each and every time.

This repetitive routine is always respected. Because it's so rigorous, it can be difficult for some parents to apply, as specially when they know their infant child is hungry. What's positive about this theory is that it can get the baby to sleep through the night from as early as two months.

One thing is for sure, ask any parent, and they'll attest to ensuring a good routine for any baby. The predictability provides security. Moreover, it will ensure that the baby won't fall asleep when eating, and therefore will never associate the two. The end result behind this concept is that both the parent and child will feel better and rested at all times.

The exhaustion that comes from nighttime feedings can cause numerous problems for parents, and especially nursing moms. It can affect her health and her memory very adversely. It makes it difficult for her to function during the day, while she still has a baby to look after and trying to be as alert as possible. It only worsens as time passes.

This is where this theory comes into play, as babies are taught easily and early on to discontinue feeding at night. Beyond that, there is sleeping, and this method recommends allowing the baby to cry for up to 20 minutes without consoling. This can be quite difficult for some parents, but eventually they learn to cry themselves to sleep.

The routine becomes established almost naturally. However, it's important to note that this method also suggests that a baby be fed sooner than the scheduled feeding time, if he shows he's really hungry. That means understanding one's own baby. Don't follow the instructions like one would if assembling a toy. Instead, make the necessary modifications.

This will ensure the baby is safe, comfortable, and happy. The last thing any parent would want is to harm their baby by withholding food that would lead to dehydration or other problems. Parents want their babies to thrive, so sometimes a little deviating is necessary. If this advice is to be taken, and this method is to be followed, ensure that the book is read and start to finish.




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